The Law Of Attraction Is On Your Side In Romance

Ever heard of the "law of attraction"? There are all kinds of self help books on this topic. The most popular is probably "The Secret".

The basic principle is that what you think about, you attract. The science behind this is that the universe is made up of energy and when we put energy into a thought, what we think of (energy sent out) will return to us (energy sent back).

So how can this law help you attract a particular type of person? It is simple really.

Let's say you constantly think of how unattractive you are and that no one wants to date you. You find that you lack self confidence and you do not date. You have put out this thought and obsessed about it which means you have fueled the thought with negative energy and it is bound, by the law of attraction, to return to you.

Now, if you think that you are attractive and people do want to date you, suddenly you find that your self esteem is way up and people are attracted to you. Positive energy has stuck again.

"The trick is to develop powerful images of whatever you want to attract in your life by using emotions. If you want to attract someone then you need to spend time every day imagining that person in your life and how it feels is crucial to getting that person to materialize." suggests Ashok, an expert on Indian dating tips.

Exercises to Tap the Law of Attraction

• Identify negative self talk. These are all the negative things going on inside your head that break you down and make you FEEL less confident. Resolve to replace negative self talk with positive self talk. Instead of saying to yourself " I am not good looking enough to get so and so", say " I am very desirable and I can attract so and so".
  
  
• Practice emotional thinking. This is simply daydreaming on steroids. You imagine what it is that you do want and the emotions you feel as you have what you want. It could be that you feel excited, happy or content but fully feel that emotion as if it were already happening.
  
  
• Before you go to bed always imagine and feel how great tomorrow is going to be in every way: work, exercise, and love.
  
  
• At least once a day spend time feeling the emotions that come with attracting the person you want in your life.

The great news is that our brains are already wired to give us just what we ask for. So if you are constantly telling your brain that you are not good enough, guess what, you won't be. By telling your brain what you do want and concentrating your emotions on those thoughts, you will attract all the positive things you are thinking of.

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