The Sure Signs That There Could Be A Second Date

One of the things that stresses people out about going on the first date happens near the end. It's the prospect of second date, and will there be one or not? Or do they even want one! In our new book 'First Date Magic' - everything you need to know about first dates and making true love appear in you life - we explore this important topic in detail.

We found that there are a number of clear signs, that the other person would be keen to see you again. Here are some of the main ones:

• The date didn't finish a lot earlier than planned.
• You both maintained eye contact, and weren't distracted by other people.
• Conversation flowed easily back and forth, with neither of you dominated the talk.
• You felt comfortable with the other person, and relaxed more and more as the date went on.
• If they saw someone they knew, they introduced you.
• They talked about something that they like, that they'd like you to do or see too.
• They complimented you.
• They told you how much they enjoyed themselves.
• They said they'd call (or email) and specified when.

And if you say you'll call. CALL! Don't be cruel and leave people hanging. Be honest and have the courage to respect their feelings. It's far kinder to tell someone immediately if you don't think there's a future for the two of you. Leading them on because you can't tell them straight is not cool.

Of course there is another side of the first date coin. Here are some signs that the first date is probably also the last:

• One of you was very late.
• Conversation was awkward and mostly one-way.
• You found nothing in common.
• No secrets were shared.
• One of you talked a lot about their ex.
• They phoned or texted during the date.
• They cut the date short on some lame excuse.
• They seemed bored.
• They hid from people they knew.

If any of these things happened, then sorry to say it's better to cut your losses, and start looking for someone new. It was just never meant to be.

But let's not get ahead of ourselves, to have a second date, first you need to find a great person to take out on a first date. And that's exactly what First Date Magic is all about. First Date Magic is packed with everything you need to know, and you can find out much more right now at http://www.firstdatemagic.com.

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