Sex and the Single WomanbyIs this thought outdated? A man who is attracted to you will want to sleep with you. However if you really want that man and would like to build a relationship it is absolutely essential that you do not sleep with him in the early stages. So, do you have sex right away, or wait a few dates. This truly depends on you, not someone else's philosophy. What you desire and what you're looking for. Everyone has sex for different reasons the main reason is because you REALLY want to. I can see some of you being concerned with how they will think of you the next morning, well, turn it around, how will you think of them the morning after, while sipping coffee? Sex is a natural expression between 2 people, an exchange of energies to be relished and enjoyed. Bottom line, it's a choice...you have the choice. If someone so urgently wants your body RIGHT NOW, (but you don't want to) can they not wait till the next time to see you? Do what is comfortable for your own well being not someone else's. Sleeping on the 1st date is about chemistry, lust and hormones. And if nothing happens afterwards, then it wasn't meant to be. That's my philosophy. If a man judges you based solely on that and not the great night you had prior to having sex, then you've just had sex with an insecure man. Don't dwell on it, move on. Don't think you did something wrong, or regret it. Don't waste your energies or give power to a man and a situation that is over and done with. After having sex with the same man (without condoms) for years, they are a new reality for you. Here is a thought I want you to remember in the heat of the moment, if a man refuses to wear a condom because "it doesn't feel natural" he's essentially saying he has no respect for you and his desires take precedence over your concerns about disease. In effect, he's saying "trust me" I don't think so! There are so many STD's out there and it takes just one time and you have a "gift" a "reminder" of that man forever. Sex is the coming together of 2 adults who desire the same thing. Sex! Exquisite ecstasy and lovemaking does not occur the first time 2 people have sex. This is something that is developed over time, while you're getting to know each other's pleasure points, likes/dislikes and desires. Don't confuse the two and get yourself riled up about something that is basically a natural, physical instinct when attraction is there. It's your body, your choice, live by what you believe and enjoy the moment for what it is. ©2008 Show All Articles By Terri Giosia
Terri Giosia is an optimistic, strong minded, confident woman, always seeking and searching for the knowledge and opportunities that every day presents. Dedicated to uplifting and motivating others....One of her mottoes is "Knowledge is Power". A Vivacious and vibrant speaker she possesses a passion and zest for life, a great sense of humor, is direct and down to earth which resonates instantly to others, allowing them to feel her energy and vitality instantly. Through her motivational speaking/Life Coaching organization, Teraluna Enterprises, she continues to seek out new and challenging endeavors. With over 15 years of public speaking experience, her high level of energy, enthusiasm and powerful messages have touched thousands of people! Combined with her charismatic style of delivery, she compels participants to make positive changes in their lives. Her riveting novella, "Doubleclick, A Woman's Intimate Journey" is a compelling, provocative "must read" for anyone who has lived, loved, overcome obstacles and triumphed and knows that "happily ever after" is not the same for everyone! Her 2nd book, "Single and loving it!" is a workbook/coaching manual for all those that desire to live a rich and fulfilled singles life. In my own words: I am an ongoing student of human behavior; Previous to finding my niche as a motivational speaker/lifestyles-singles coach I was paving the path to this career with my own work and life experience.... I have been writing since the age of 6, always the "story teller" captivating people with my stories. As a teen, I was able to channel that energy through 2 years of drama where I wrote, acted and directed various plays. My desire even then was to uplift through my writing and speaking..... My experience over the last 20 years includes training, business development, consulting, and various supervisory roles. Whether it was my job or not, it has always come naturally to motivate others IE: employees, friends and associates, coupled with delving into my own personal growth to enhance my life I have undoubtedly been a coach/motivational speaker for most of my life. I am currently working on several projects with "like minded" people and organizations; this enables me to do what I love to do! My passion, reason and purpose, I have found it, let me help you find yours!
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