Sex, some say it is a necessity, just like eating and drinking, a physiological need. On the other hand, some say it is a luxury, an option. You can live without doing it. However, for couples, especially married couples, it is a requirement. It is a form of communication, a form of sharing intimacy and warmth. Couples have sex to express their love and make their bond stronger. But for a certain period of time, sex can get boring, especially when it becomes a routine, where couples do it for the sake of releasing the tension. At this point, making love becomes just like any other mundane activities, no longer an expression of love and affection.

When making love becomes unfeeling, it disconnects the couples. It leaves a void to the people involved. The relationship becomes lonely, the romance goes out the window, and then the couple becomes vulnerable to outside temptation, from this, an epic of relationship problems can occur... and you don't want this to happened in your relationship.

When your relationship becomes stale, the sex life becomes bland and meaningless, and the romance level is down the drain, it's time to try these intercourse positions that can make you closer and makes your relationship feel like brand new. Yes, there are certain sex positions that can deliver top- level of emotional intimacy.

These intercourse positions could give you and your lover the experience that is far beyond your sensory understanding, improving the bonding of your encounters and filling you with emotional significance. The caressing, the kissing, the eye contact, the touching, the feeling... these are emotional complements on your physical experience, and these are the intercourse position that can do that.

The first intercourse position that improves intimacy is where you lie on your back at the edge of the bed or a surface. Then put your legs on your man's shoulders. In this position, both of you have the control--- your man controls the movement, and you, using your legs to control the thrusting, you can push him back a little or slow him down, or you can let him lean all the way towards you, making your feel the heaviness of each other's breathing.

The next intercourse position that improves intimacy is where you have your man seated with legs extended, and leaning back on his arms. Then you sit on top, facing him. Next, you lean back and extend your legs behind him. This position will allow you to do slow, gentle movements. Making you both feel the act and enables you to watch each other and have deep eye contact.

The third intercourse position that improves intimacy is where your man sits on the a chair, and you would sit on top, facing him and stride him, with your feet on the floor, both of you have the luxury of being close face to face and have the opportunity for sexy kisses, whispers, and free hands for sensual caressing.

Ruth Purple
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