As women we can often feel that a partner or intimate relationship will give our life meaning and fulfillment.

A partner and loving relationship can greatly enrich our life, but it is our relationship with ourself that is the foundation for any happiness and fulfillment. When we desire to find our soulmate because we long to be loved, we are vibrating on a frequency of lack and will either attract an equally "lacking" partner or none at all.

To attract our true spiritual and romantic partner, we first want to remember and fully experience the flow of love within and for ourself, and become increasingly comfortable with our own company without fearing to be alone.

We are never truly alone in this world. The universe is always on our side. Let's look in the mirror each day, be open to appreciate all aspects of what we see and make a choice to be open to remembering, feeling and expressing love for ourself. Let's always find new reasons to be proud of ourself and accept with patience where we are at this moment in time. In experiencing the full flow of love for ourself we will feel a new kind of fullness and gradually shed the notion of lack. We will naturally be more loving toward others too.

The more love we feel for ourself and others, the more we are putting ourself in alignment to attract a partner that also wishes to share love from a place of abundance instead of lack. So when we feel we least "need" our soulmate, that's exactly when he will appear in our life.

With love and highest regards Susanne

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