You would love to meet him and he's showing all the signs that he's interested but he just will not approach you.

Luckily it's no longer unacceptable to women to approach men, but how do you go about it?

Try to find something that's in context with your surroundings.

A bit of an extreme example, but one that a woman used on me and worked was this.

I was in a pool tournament and it was just winding down. I've been playing pool all day and was obviously enjoying myself. She just simply asked me to be her partner in a friendly game against her friends.

Because of what I had been doing all day, I never really thought much about it, we played against them and then had a few games between us. We had a lot of fun and got to know each other.

It didn't turn into a romance, but you can't expect every encounter to end up in marriage.

The point is she did it in such a natural way that I never even expected that she was trying to meet me.

Ask open ended questions.

By that I mean don't ask question that have a yes or no answer, instead ask him something that will get him talking.

For example you could say "I see you ordered the road kill, what other exotic foods do you like?"

OK, bad example. If you see him eating road kill you will likely lose all interest in him, and I suggest you refrain from ordering anything to eat from that particular establishment.

However if you can get him talking then you have an opening for more conversation.

Touch him

I don't mean wrap your arms around him, just innocent touches. Put your hand on his arm when you are making a point. If you are sitting together allow your knees to touch.

It's all just body language.

Make the close.

If he hasn't asked for your phone number give it to him,

I know you may find it difficult to make the first move, but if you think about it, it's just as difficult for him to approach you. Help him out.

You know he is interested, so could read that from his body language.

You don't have to worry that you he will think you are too forward, in fact he's more likely to feel flattered.

Just remember that if you don't approach him he's going to leave and it's unlikely that you will get another chance.

Get off your chair and go meet the guy, you have everything to gain, and nothing to lose.

Do you want to be sure he's interested before you approach him? Read How Interested Is He

If you decide you are interested in him and want to create intense attraction I suggest that you download and read Catch Him And Keep Him.

Gary Caine
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