15 Hot Ideas for Phenomenal Physical Intimacy!

1. Become a couple with unwavering commitment to doing whatever it takes to make your overall relationship work. Remember, problems always show up in the bedroom. If you want great sex, never deny your partner the attention necessary to let them know they are loved, appreciated and respected. Relationships are something that must be worked on ALL THE TIME, not only when they are broken and need to be fixed.

2. Have a passion for life's sexual journey and for the processes required to go from boring to bliss in the bedroom. Be creative with your passion. Direct it toward your partner. Nurture it. Enjoy and revel in it.

3. Become dedicated to mutual pleasure for both you and your love partner. Sex is fun and pleasure is good for you!

4. Learn to be intentionally spontaneous and open for the opportunity to make love when it presents itself; during a lunch break, in the back seat of your car or by arousing your partner from a deep sleep in the middle of the night.

5. Perfect the ability to communicate openly and honestly your most secret sexual desires and needs. Be responsible for your own sexual pleasure by asking for what you need or taking care of yourself.

6. Be willing to be a student of great sex; read about it, study it, practice it.

7. Be mature enough to exercise the discipline to stay in the moment when being sexually intimate. Never allow the cares of the day to distract you. Focus on giving pleasure to each other.

8. Be daring. . . experiment. Do things differently, try new positions, new places, love toys and more, in agreement with both partners, of course. Variety is the spice of a healthy sexual relationship. Be creative! To always make love the same old way is, in a word, BORING!!

9. Pay attention to personal hygiene. The first rule of making love is to present a body that is tastefully clean!

10. Cultivate the generosity to consider your love partner's pleasure before your own, or the esprit de corps to decide whether you or your partner goes first or whether you reach orgasm together.

11. Have the keenness of mind to recognize the value of making love vs. only having sex. A "quickie" now and then is okay, however to only and always depend upon quickies for your sexual gratification is a form of "taking your partner for granted" and can only lead to resentment. Make time for the time that is needed to "make love."

12. Synthesize the gusto to be energetic when making love and aware of the sensitivity it takes to passionately lay motionless together after engaging in sex. Enjoy foreplay, engagement and afterglow.

13. Be courageous enough to not always take yourselves so seriously; to laugh, to play and be playful and to experience whatever is sexually exciting and enjoyable.

14. Learn to negotiate win/win agreements and promises about how you will mutually care for your partner's needs in the sexual arena.

15. Ask for the variety of pleasure you want and deserve. However, to force or coerce your partner to do something they do not want to do breeds discontent and is highly disrespectful. In this scenario, always take "No!" for the answer. Never be afraid to ask for what you want and always demonstrate the respect to honor your lover's right to say no without consequence.

Practice including the keywords that are in bold in your sexual vocabulary with your partner and watch what happens!

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500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets

In addition to the hundreds of ideas, 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets also includes a section of the 10 Most Common Lovemaking Positions (and 6 more for the adventurous and athletic) along with explanations of the benefits of each one, and a Lubrication Guide that gives you the pros and cons of those on the market.

Yes, there will be tips and suggestions if you will be making love for the very first time. Likewise, you will find discover amazing new techniques even if you are the most seasoned lover.

There are many tips and creative suggestions on performing the most incredible oral sex that will drive your partner absolutely insane. I'll share special places and ways to touch, tickle, stroke and lick that most people never, ever think of. You will discover which moves and positions are the best for the opposite sex. Find out which ones allow for the deepest penetration and which ones are fantastic for g-spot and clitoral stimulation.

You can learn more by reading this material than it takes most people dozens of years (and often dozens of partners) to learn. You can read it in the privacy of your own home or office. Best of all, 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets was written by a relationship expert who knows that just because it feels good or is exciting doesn't means it is good for you. It is advice you can trust completely.

Here are just a few of the tips you will enjoy in 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets:

• An item in the frozen food section that will send shivers up and down your mates body in a very surprising way


• Something in your toiletry bag which doubles as an amazing lovemaking toy


• 2 novel ways to use mirrors in lovemaking that you probably never heard of


• Find out what month is a guy's testosterone peak


• A great way to invigorate someone who is too tired for sex


• What colored light bulbs will intensify orgasms


• How to get firmer erections and prevent premature ejaculation without medicines


• The two things done in combination that will blow his mind


• A sexy lubrication tip that will have him begging for it each time


• What food and drink you should avoid the 24 hours before making love to avoid unpleasant odors


• One simple trick to make your wife scream in delight like never before


• Which smells can instantly increase penile blood flow by up to 40%


• Where and how to touch your guy when he is about to orgasm that will have him explode like a firecracker (even he probably doesn't know this trick)


• Ways to use your mouth on her that will drive her absolutely wild


• Something to do with your hands when you are entering her that will excite her even more