Are You Good at Receiving?
Whenever I speak with a new client there is always a challenge between getting enough information and giving them something helpful. The problem being that to give someone information that is truly helpful, a counselor needs to understand that person, the details of their situation and a little bit of their history. Not an easy thing to accomplish in the first session. There is one thing that I have noticed with my female clients that nearly all of them do and they never realize what they are doing. It often comes out in the first visit and they are surprised that I make such an issue of it. What is this insight that most women do that men find unattractive? Most women don't receive compliments well.
Actually a more honest statement would be- most women are terrible at receiving compliments. They don't want others to think they are arrogant, snobby or the worst - a bitch. But in an attempt not to appear conceited, they fail to understand how they appear to a man. When a man compliments you, he's actually giving you something - like a flower or a gift. To minimize it feels like your belittling his gift. If you do that enough, you'll train him not to give to you. In effect, you're telling him you don't believe the nice thing he said about you. He won't think you're being humble, he'll soon believe that he was mistaken to believe you're wonderful. What should you do?When a man compliments you, smile and simply say "thank you." Oh, I realize it sounds simple, and it is. But if you begin doing this you'll likely find that it feels a bit uncomfortable. To receive a compliment can be unnerving, but it is well worth the effort because men are naturally attracted to women that are good at receiving. To a man, this quality makes a woman more attractive and confident.Bob Grant, "The Relationship Doctor," is widely recognized as a leading expert on dating and relationships. As a professional Coach for over 16 years, he has helped hundreds of women experience the relationship of their dreams. In his hit books, "The Woman Men Adore...And Never Want To Leave," and "How Do I Get Him Back," Bob shows women exactly how to captivate a man, make him fall in love and stay devoted to them forever. ©2011 Show All Articles By Bob GrantThe Woman the Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave
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