How To Get Him To Approach You
You've made eye contact and he seems interested, but he just wouldn't approach you. Could it be that he's just not getting the idea that you might be interested? You may think you are giving him all the right signals, but men just aren't as good at reading body language as women are. Your signals may be just too subtle for him to catch. All men have a fear of rejection and they need enough insurance that you are interested before they can muster up the courage to come over and talk to you. I'm sure you know all about body language and signals, but let's go over them anyway. Eye contact Short of staring the more eye contact you make the stronger the signal is. Try to make contact for longer than you normally would, but still try to be the first to look away so that he can see that you look down before you look away. For some reason it expresses more interest if you look down before you look away. It shows a bit of shyness as well as interest. You may have to let him catch you looking at him three or four times before he finally catches on. Smile, especially when you are looking at him. A pleasant nature smile shows that you are friendly and indicates that you are approachable. Get close to him. Better yet brush up lightly against him. Getting close to someone will enable you to send out the right vibes, plus it saves him the possible embarrassment of having to walk across the room only to be rejected and having to walk all the way back with in his mind having everyone smirking at him. Acknowledge him Nod your head, or if you are close enough say hi. The very fact that you recognize his presence lets him know that at least you aren't trying to avoid any contact with him. If you think you are over doing it with any of these signals then you likely have it about right and he might just feel comfortable enough to approach you.
If he doesn't approach you then you are going to have to approach him. Read How You Can Approach Men Do you want to be sure he's interested before you approach him? Read How Interested Is He
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