Entice Him to a Night of Elegance!

Okay so you're planning your vacation time together. You would like to see a fabulous show. He would like to watch the football game. You would like a night of heavenly dining. He needs pizza and beer for the game. You want to show off your new knock-out dress. He wants to wear cut-off shorts and a sleeveless T-shirt while watching the game.

Do you struggle getting him to take you on an elegant night out?

Other women have this very same problem. Many men just don't want to get all gussied-up for a night out. He'd gladly take you golfing or fishing or to the sports bar but please don't ask him to take you on a night of fine dining and entertainment in a suit and tie or heaven forbid... the dreaded penguin suit!

There is a way that you can have your cake and your other half can eat it too (does that make sense?). There may be a little give and take here but I'm sure that you'll agree that it is worth it.

Entice him to take a vacation with you where he could golf, do some deep sea fishing, watch the games at the sports bars, lounge on the beach or play some blackjack. Sounds pretty good for him so far doesn't it?

But what would you get out of all of this? Well, you would get to enjoy his company (while he is not swinging the club or testing the rod and reel. You would also get to play the beach bum - or bunny - on some of the best beaches in the world. You could sip exotic drinks or enjoy a glass of fine wine.

Are we getting closer

to your idea of a fun vacation together? Oh right. There still is no night of elegance. Well, let's see...

For many people the "night action" (no pun intended) is the most fun. You would be able to dance, do karaoke, watch comedians - every night would have something different. You could watch the sun go down together or watch it coming up. Either way you would have a romantic moment together.

You would meet plenty of new people to call your friends. You could plan special times together with these new friends while creating some memories that lasting relationships are founded on.

You could eat delectable meals. Buffet style or a la carte style, your choice (or his). He could even get his pizza and beer. And while he would be enjoying his menu choices you could be savoring a completely different bill of fare while dining together!

So far, we have developed some of the woulds and coulds for this vacation together that is trying to satisfy both parties. But there is still something missing...

Oh yea, the Elegant Night Out!

Now here is where the give and take must be broached. You have offered him many special vacation perks (many of which appeal to you as well - but don't tell him that). The one thing that he would need to do to mak this vacation PERFECT is...

There would be a special night called a Formal Night. A night on which almost everyone would dress to the nines and enjoy a succulent meal in an elegant dining room and be waited on hand and foot. This small concession would be all that you ask for all of the vacation perks that you would be offering him. A small price to pay, right?

He would not even need to pack a suit and tie if he did not wish to (or if you failed to mention this part to him. You see, you could order a rental tuxedo - that's right, a penguin suit - for him to wear on this special night.

You would both get another perk on this fabulous vacation. You would get to "knock-his-socks-off" with your sexy elegant gown and he would get to strut-his-stuff" with you on his arm as you stroll to and from the dinging room, show lounge and casino.

You have probably already guessed that I am talking about a romantic cruise vacation aboard one of the magnificent floating resorts. These vacations wrap up a host of his'n'hers perks into one manageable package.

The week or so that you spend on a cruise vacation could spark a new fire and take your relationship to even greater heights. You never know... he might even get to enjoy dressing up for more elegant nights out!

Brian A Schmidt is the author and publisher of www.A1-Discount-Cruises.com. Together with his wife Carol, he lives in a small community in Southwestern Ontario Canada. Their three grown children have enjoyed a family cruise vacation with mom, dad , grand parents and better half's. They now have four small grandchildren whom they spoil at every chance. Brian enjoys gardening and woodworking in his backyard workshop as a reprieve from his long time construction management positions. Brian and Carol enjoy looking for cruise vacation deals for their next cruise aboard the romantic luxury cruise ships.

Brian A. Schmidt
©2009

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