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Ask The CoachbyWhen love vanishesDear Dating Coach, I am a 30 something, professional woman who was in a long distance relationship with a divorced father for over a year. He suddenly ended it, citing long distance dating stress and its impact on him and his kids as the reason. I believed we were head over heels for one another as we spent every other weekend, vacations and all holidays together. He had always been loving and demonstrative, yet broke up with me via a terse email. Needless to say, I was devastated. I have contacted him a number of times, seeking closure- but he refuses to talk about it. I still love him and believe it is impossible to move on and look for a new relationship when I am carrying a torch for him. What can I do? What should I do? - Stuck in a dead end love Dear Stuck- I'm so sorry. All break-ups are painful and the grief is only compounded when a break comes with no warning, no clear explanation, and no way to process your feelings by asking questions and expressing the hurt- which would both help you finds closure. So you are left to move forward on your own, which you must do. You will need to go through a grief process that will take you through a whole range of feelings, and which should be accompanied by support from family and friends in order to maximize its benefit to you. I have two articles that can detail this for you. These are on: http://www.consum-mate.com/article.php?id=47&catid=13 Right now you appear to be in the first stage of grief, which is denial. I wouldn't be surprised if you are still trying to rationalize that he will come to his senses and/or realize that he wants to be with you. You can waste a lot of time in denial. Read my articles, get your support systems in place, and come up with some new life goals. It will take time to heal, and you will get through it more easily by redirecting your attention and trying to stay focused on something different and positive. Once you truly KNOW it is over, you will be free to move forward and find a man who is truly right for you. ©2005 is a psychotherapist, relationship coach and founder of http://www.consum-mate.com. As a recognized expert, Toni has been quoted in many local and national publications including; The Chicago Tribune, The Orlando Sentinel, New York Daily News, Indianapolis Star and Newsweek newspapers and Family Circle, Cosmo Style, Tango, Men's Health, Star (regularly quoted body language expert), and People magazines. She has been featured on ABC news, Discovery Health, AOL news, MSN, and Match. Toni is also the featured relationship coach in "The Business And Practice Of Coaching," ( Norton,September 2005); and is the author of the forward for," Winning Points With The Woman In Your Life, One Touchdown At A Time" (Simon and Schuster, November 2005). From March 2005 until December 2005, she was a weekly contributing commentator (love and dating coach) on the KTRS Radio Morning Show, (St. Louis, MO). Toni is a member of The International Coach Federation, The International Association of Coaches and The National Association of Social Workers. Power Sessions For Women
You've been dating for quite some time now, and you meet your fair share of men. But for some reason, they ask someone else out instead of you. Or, when you do date you seem to attract the same kind of men into your life...the wrong ones. What in the world is going wrong? You want very much to have the right man in your life, but you just can't seem to break the cycle. You just KNOW something is missing. You aren't willing to settle for the type of man who falls short of your expectations, and deep down you know that there are plenty of good men still out there. Not all men are "Idiot / Jerks". Some men still know how to be dashing and masculine the way you picture the man of your dreams being. The most fortunate women end up with a smart, handsome man who is ALSO very masculine and among the most confident and most confidence-inspiring men out there. The woman with the absolute best life you can imagine spends it with a man who is furthermore able to inspire her simply with a look or a touch. But these most fortunate among women do not typically end up with the greatest men on Earth by accident. Nor are they found only in fictional romance novels. These women are REAL, and they truly DESERVE such men. And when they do, they not only earn the luxury of selecting from among the sharpest men imaginable...their men are SMITTEN with them in return. No cheating, no divorce(s). Men and women who DESERVE WHAT THEY WANT tend to find each other. |
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