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A Problem With Technology or a Mixed Message?

Dear Dating Coach,

Why do women ignore men and play immature little games with the phone? They see a guy's number on the caller id and don't pick up, or listen to his voice mails and not respond. They also read the texts he sends but they don't text back. To me this is a sign that a woman is not interested. Yet too often when the guy gets the message and stops calling her, she starts calling him- and the cycle begins again. I know when a woman likes a guy, she chases him. How can I or any guy experiencing this turn it around with a woman?

-Straightforward Guy

Dear Straightforward-

I think this kind of behavior occurs with a small percentage of women- not all women. You are right that if the lady is truly interested, she will usually be consistent in her responses and in keeping the lines of communication open with a guy. If not, and she just likes the attention, but has no real interest- she may "keep him in the wings" until someone else comes along.

There can be a number of reasons for why these women handle themselves this way. These can include problems with intimacy, fear of confrontation and conflict and/or confusion due to not getting closure on a past relationship or an attraction to more than one man at the same time. By the way, men have been known to behave this way as well- for the same reasons that women do.

Try to develop some good radar for detecting "bad girl" behavior in the people you meet, are attracted to and would like to date. It is important to see your role in this as you choose these women, and may have some issues of your own to confront. Once you work on who you are attracted to and why, you can look for someone who is genuine, straightforward, and relationship ready. Then they only games you will be participating in will involve a team effort.



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is a psychotherapist, relationship coach and founder of http://www.consum-mate.com. As a recognized expert, Toni has been quoted in many local and national publications including; The Chicago Tribune, The Orlando Sentinel, New York Daily News, Indianapolis Star and Newsweek newspapers and Family Circle, Cosmo Style, Tango, Men's Health, Star (regularly quoted body language expert), and People magazines. She has been featured on ABC news, Discovery Health, AOL news, MSN, and Match. Toni is also the featured relationship coach in "The Business And Practice Of Coaching," ( Norton,September 2005); and is the author of the forward for," Winning Points With The Woman In Your Life, One Touchdown At A Time" (Simon and Schuster, November 2005). From March 2005 until December 2005, she was a weekly contributing commentator (love and dating coach) on the KTRS Radio Morning Show, (St. Louis, MO). Toni is a member of The International Coach Federation, The International Association of Coaches and The National Association of Social Workers.


How To Be Wanted For a Lifetime of Nights and Not Just a Night of a Lifetime.

How To Be Wanted For a Lifetime of Nights and Not Just a Night of a Lifetime Book Cover

The fires of passion and sex burn hot in the world around us. Chasing desire seems to be a common theme in the world today. Music videos, the Internet, TV shows, movies, magazines and books often have one common theme, the feeding of desire. Our society has indeed become preoccupied with sex, and more and more are getting caught in the web of deception that chasing desire creates.

If a lasting relationship is what your heart is searching for, read on.

If you want to see why a "lifetime of nights" approach to relationships and love is better than a "night of a lifetime" approach, read on.

If you would like to know the difference between "the fire that warms" and "the fire that burns", please continue.

Stop and think about it.

  • Are you dating online or offline and trying to connect with your heart and not just your body?
  • Has committed love and making love last somehow been lost in a mindset of recreational sex?
  • Are you making relationships more about passion than promise and being seduced by an over-emphasis on the bedroom and the body?
  • Do you find it easy to attract a relationship but hard to keep a relationship?

"This e-book is concise and to the point. It is thought provoking and will make you ask questions of yourself. You will start to examine your own life and relationships and value them deeply. It is well written with insightful information."

Ricky D., -- Married 15-years / One Child Tennessee



"How To Be Wanted For a Lifetime of Nights and Not Just a Night of a Lifetime" will help you to pull the blinds on your mind and condition you to shut out the lead-with-the-body influences that are all around you.



The Hard Questions

Do you want to ask the person you are dating about their sexual past, how much money they earn or other difficult questions but don't know how?

Here is a way to do so without offending them at all.



Michael Webb's Relationship Ebook Collection

For a very limited time only, relationship expert Michael Webb is offering his entire collection of relationship e-books (10 in all, a value of $200) plus a collection of 30 bonus e-books from other relationship experts (a $1200 value) for ONLY $69!

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A Practical Guide To Deciding Whether Or Not To Get A Divorce

Should you get a divorce or should you stick it out and try to make your marriage work?

This can be the most heart wrenching decision you will ever have to make.

Divorce may or may not be the answer for you, but one thing is certain. If you don't take action and make a decision nothing is going to change.

It will take some serious soul searching to decide what's best for you.

A Practical Guide To Deciding Whether Or Not To Get A Divorce will help you dig deep into the real issues that you need to consider before you can make the right decison.

Don't sit in limbo, take action, get on with your life and be happy again.




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