In "Body Language Attraction: Is Your Body Language Preventing You From Creating Attraction In Men" I talked about some things you may be unconsciously doing to derail your chances of creating attraction.

In this article I'll give you some body language flirting tips that are sure to create attraction.

These are all things men naturally notice and find attractive.

Eye contact

Believe it or not your eyes can be the most appealing feature you have, use them to your advantage.

While you don't want to be staring at him it's important to make eye contact. Look into his eyes with an occasional glance at his lips or chin.

Your eyes will show genuine attraction and can be irresistible so don't hide them.

Smile

I don't think that I need to tell you how attractive a genuine smile is. As long as your smile isn't just an act it will do wonders to set him attracted to you.

Posture

Face ahead, lean towards him, and don't cross your arms.

Touch

Done right the slightest touch can bring on positive emotions in a person.

Put your hand on his shoulder or elbow when you want to make a point. Sit with your knees touching.

It's little things like these that will show that you like him.

Personal space

If you aren't comfortable touching him yet you can at least move into his personal space but watch for signs that he's getting uncomfortable and if he is back off just a bit.

Hair flipping

Flipping your hair is a flirting technique that many women use that is somewhat suggestive. Men can't help picking up on it.

Licking your lips.

This attracts attention to your lips which automatically will make him think of kissing you. Don't over do it you don't want to look like a snake looking for a fly.

Final thoughts

These are suggestions that do work, but don't try too hard or you will come across as being insincere. Just be aware of them and give them a try once in a while and they will become second nature.

When you finally find the right man are you going to want him to adore you and treat you the way you deserve?

The best source of information I've ever seen for any woman that wants a healthy and happy relationship is The Woman the Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave

Gary Caine
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