Aging...it's all in the hormones!
The old adage "aging gracefully" is relative. What is graceful for some is not for others. I have found that it is very different for men and women. What happens when we age, besides the obvious laugh lines, or as I prefer calling them "wisdom lines"? Aging for women brings on confidence, self assurance, energy, drive, knowledge about who they are and a higher sex drive. (More women over 40 open up their own business, change careers and/or go back to work) Aging for men, brings on loss of sex drive, they are content in their jobs, what they've attained, so this allows them to feel the need to slow down, their desire to relax is greater which brings on an overall feeling of "contentment" and they don't feel like trying new things..... and they are wondering what happened to their significant other. This also coincides with children leaving for college, moving out and the couple that remains are strangers, literally in the night. What a cosmic joke that this occurs and it's hormones that truly plays a huge part in this rise and fall (pardon the pun) in the sexes. As estrogen lowers in women, their testosterone rises (bringing the ambition, drive and libido) where as for men, their testosterone lowers, their estrogen rises and it brings on a sensation of wanting to "settle" down and nurture. So while men feel the need to slow down, their significant other wants to spread her wings and fly.....so, this scares and intimidates Mr. Slow down...and rather than discussing it, he thinks a younger body and adoration is the answer. This is a wondrous time for women over 40 and explains why all of a sudden older women are attracted to younger men and vice versa. Complications arise as you find yourself attracted to the 29 year old in accounting and feel shame, desire and wonder. This desire can many times lead to affairs of the heart and cause anguish and pain, however, that is a choice only you can make, no judging here as unless I have walked in your shoes, I cannot judge! So, for all you lucky single woman over 40, stop wondering, pondering and just revel in this wonderful explosion of energy, drive and desire....Indulge in what your body and mind needs and that is the adoration and respect that a younger man will give you. He is enticed, intrigued and wants to learn....something that men in your age group for the most part no longer desire as they're "content" with what they've conquered, learned and now want to wind down in their lazy Boys! 
Terri Giosia is an optimistic, strong minded, confident woman, always seeking and searching for the knowledge and opportunities that every day presents. Dedicated to uplifting and motivating others....One of her mottoes is "Knowledge is Power". A Vivacious and vibrant speaker she possesses a passion and zest for life, a great sense of humor, is direct and down to earth which resonates instantly to others, allowing them to feel her energy and vitality instantly. Through her motivational speaking/Life Coaching organization, Teraluna Enterprises, she continues to seek out new and challenging endeavors. With over 15 years of public speaking experience, her high level of energy, enthusiasm and powerful messages have touched thousands of people! Combined with her charismatic style of delivery, she compels participants to make positive changes in their lives. Her riveting novella, "Doubleclick, A Woman's Intimate Journey" is a compelling, provocative "must read" for anyone who has lived, loved, overcome obstacles and triumphed and knows that "happily ever after" is not the same for everyone! Her 2nd book, "Single and loving it!" is a workbook/coaching manual for all those that desire to live a rich and fulfilled singles life. In my own words: I am an ongoing student of human behavior; Previous to finding my niche as a motivational speaker/lifestyles-singles coach I was paving the path to this career with my own work and life experience.... I have been writing since the age of 6, always the "story teller" captivating people with my stories. As a teen, I was able to channel that energy through 2 years of drama where I wrote, acted and directed various plays. My desire even then was to uplift through my writing and speaking..... My experience over the last 20 years includes training, business development, consulting, and various supervisory roles. Whether it was my job or not, it has always come naturally to motivate others IE: employees, friends and associates, coupled with delving into my own personal growth to enhance my life I have undoubtedly been a coach/motivational speaker for most of my life. I am currently working on several projects with "like minded" people and organizations; this enables me to do what I love to do! My passion, reason and purpose, I have found it, let me help you find yours!
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